
About and hour ago, my dad called and told me that my Grandma had gone home to her sweetheart just in time for Valentine's Day. When the phone rang with "the family ring," I was very worried. It has been my experience that if family is calling before 9, it is probably not just to say, "Hey, how are you?" So I was scared! My mind started racing to try to think of what horrible thing could have possibly happened. Then when I heard my dad's voice, I thought "It must be really bad." No offense Dad, but you don't really call for good news, that's Mom's job. So by this time I was really nervous. Then when he told me that Grandma had passed on early this morning I just felt at peace. I was totally okay with it! I thought, how is that bad news? Don't get me wrong, I love my Grandma. It is just that we have been expecting her to go for a long time, at least 4 years. She suffered a stroke and has really never recovered too well from that. Since then it has very much been slowly down hill. So to hear that she has finally passed is so good.
I would like to share with you all some memories about my grandma. I think every memory I have of my Grandma involves hard work and patience. Never complaining!!!! My Grandma was very soft spoken. I never heard her raise her voice, I am not even sure she could.
I remember my Grandma sweeping the carpet. She and Grandpa were babysitting for my parents while they went out of town. I remember telling her that we had a vacuum, but she didn’t seem to care, she just kept on sweeping the carpet. I guess old habits die hard.
I am not sue why this next memory hit me so hard yesterday, especially when there was no external reason for the "memory jog." I am sure it had something to do with Heavenly Father helping me to be at peace with her passing. Anyway, I remember my grandma wanting to sit down and relax (not something she got a chance to do often). She wanted to watch a movie, but did not want to be offended by anything either. She asked us to just pick out a good movie. So we picked Saturday’s Warrior’s, a quality film. As it was starting the comment I remember my Grandma making was “It is not even approved by the Church.” In my 11-year-old mind I thought, “Give me a break!!! It really is a good movie. Not everything has to be approved by the Brethren to be good.” Now that I am older and wiser, I see her point. Perhaps not everything good has the stamp of approval from the Church, but it defiantly does not hurt. At least if it is approved by the Church, you know it is held to a higher standard than what the world holds things to. Good thing we don’t really know it all at 11.
I remember my when my grandpa would be teasing us kids, there would come a point that Grandma would finally say, “Lowell, stop.” Somehow Grandma could see what Grandpa could not … that we did not find it funny anymore.
I remember spending a night or two at Grandma & Grandpa’s house. After dinner was eaten and cleaned up my Grandma really wanted to play Rook, but I had no idea how to play. My Grandma was very patient with me and taught me how to play. Because of lack of practice I then forgot, which is why to the day I am not very good. My grandma was good thought and she always allowed us time to learn. She was so full of love.
She was also very good at remember all her Grandchildren and their birthday’s. She kept everything in such order, something you have to be good at in order to keep track of 50+ Grandchildren.

My Grandma was such an example of true discipleship. Very quiet in all she did. If I could just figure out how to me more like her, I would be doing well.
I am thankful to my Grandma for the silent example she was to me. I am thankful to her for giving me time to prepare for her passing (not much like Grandpa who just up and went). I think maybe Grandma's are like that... they just give you fair warning.